What Makes an Adult Family Home Exceptional? Look to the Caregivers
I took some intentional “between-the-ears” time this weekend—time to pause, reflect, and reset. We all find peace in different ways, but creating space for it is essential, not only for ourselves, but also for those who rely on us. Even in my own quiet moments, my mind often returns to the work I do with adult family homes.
Why do caregiver relationships matter in an adult family home?
I find myself reflecting on what differentiates a good home from an exceptional one—those that create longevity, stability, and a true sense of belonging. The common thread I repeatedly see is this: the caregivers are happy, valued, and supported, and the providers lead with compassion and genuine care.
What does caregiver stability tell you about a home’s quality?
I’ve worked with adult family homes where caregivers have remained with the same provider for 10+ years, continuing to deliver heartfelt, dedicated care. That kind of longevity doesn’t happen by chance. It happens when caregivers are given:
Time to rest and recharge, away from responsibility, to nurture their own well-being
Fair and livable wages that allow them to meet their needs and plan for their future
Access to benefits, when possible, such as health insurance and paid vacations which significantly contributes to stability and job satisfaction
How does caregiver well-being impact your loved one’s care?
Caregivers are the heartbeat of every adult family home. When they are supported, they show up with greater patience, connection, and joy—and families can feel that difference. When they are stretched too thin or undervalued, it impacts the atmosphere, communication, and quality of care.
What should families look for when visiting an adult family home?
For families seeking an adult family home for a loved one, I encourage you to look beyond the surface and observe the caregiving team:
How do staff greet you?
How do they speak to and engage with residents and one another?
Do they appear calm, supported, and present—or overwhelmed and rushed?
Is there awake overnight staff so day staff can rest?
Do caregivers have regular time off to recharge and reset?
These are meaningful indicators of a home where care is sustainable, and people—both residents and staff—can thrive.
How do you know when an adult family home is the right fit?
If you are searching in East King County for exceptional care for someone you love, it would be my honor to help guide you.
